UNBECOMING
A 6-month program to build a body that can sustain the strategy, the level of visibility and leadership needed to scale to consistent $10K+ months... without burning out, shrinking on sales calls, or collapsing after every launch, with the fearless, unbothered precision of a cat stalking its prey.Â
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You are done...
Discounting your genius or caving in the silence on sales calls the second a lead hesitates.
Saying "yes" to red-flag clients even when your body clearly gives you that off feeling in your stomach.
Outsourcing your power to another mentor instead of trusting your own intuition.
Playing by the rules of toxic productivity: do more, hustle harder, grind... push through the resistance, the heaviness, the pressure, the frustration that shows up when executing the strategy and is very much FELT in your body. Full-speed chase toward a burnout that will take months to un-f*ck is simply not your cup of tea.
You no longer want to force strategy that feels like wading through cement, or suffocating in a strategic box that feels like swallowing broken glass, rather than expressing your truth.
You refuse to positively reframe every thought or listen to another wise-ass lecture you on your own reality, pretending their cookie-cutter "wisdom" is more valid than the literal screams of your own INTUITION.
Done with the fake hype, surface-level, superficial ''fire emoji'' and ''skyrockets'' support that that doesn’t see you, hear you, or actually support you.
More than scaling fast, you crave sustainable growth, one that doesn't burn you out in the long run.
Apply here!And yet…
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You find yourself trapped in a cycle of overwork and burnout: pushing through until your body demands a week of silence, meditation, and a Netflix binge fueled by popcorn before you can even think about showing up again.
You know there's a higher level of leadership, income and impact meant for you, but something keeps limiting your income.
You want to state a price, look the client in the eye (or the camera), and feel zero urge to fill the silence with a discount or an extra bonus just to "sweeten the deal."
You see a peer’s "sold out" post and, while you’re happy for them, you make their win mean your stagnation.
You look at your bank account, which is objectively fine, and then look at your results, but your brain tells you it was all just a fluke.
You start chasing yet another mastermind or mentor promising a gazillion-step framework, convincing you to DO MORE, because you’re suddenly convinced another strategy will fix everything, instead of actually building a body that doesn’t panic in uncertainty.
You don't want to be just another polished person talking to a camera. You want to be real, raw, and different. You want to be YOU just like you are with your best friend: unhinged, goofy, and fully aware that hell is where you’ll probably end up. And you want this energy alone to convert clients.
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My client S went from not being able to close a high-ticket sale to making €12K in her first launch, €50K within weeks of working with me, and today she is well beyond that number....
She knew she was holding back, she felt like she was bragging whenever she allowed herself to be bold. She compared herself to other mentors in the industry and hid behind the fear instead of owning her presence. As a result of tending to her identity, rejection, and exposure wounds, she became more authentic in how she showed up on social media. Her audience felt it and became more engaging. Sales calls felt much easier because her worth was no longer tied to the outcome.Â
How my client J went from feeling anxious at the thought of filming face-to-camera videos for her business, to being completely unblocked in her expression, confidently showing up on camera and speaking clearly about her offers online in less than one month of working together.
My client D went from crippling fear about her upcoming workshop, to actually enjoying it.
She was in the early stages of her business, preparing for her very first live workshop, and she was feeling all the things: fear, anxiety, overwhelm. The women I work with would have found a way regardless. But there is a difference between pushing through your fear, pretending you're fine, and exhausting yourself to get there, and showing up grounded, easeful, and actually enjoying it. That's what we created together.Â
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UNBECOMING!
A 6-month program for rebels to build a body that can sustain the level of visibility and leadership needed to scale to consistent $10K+ months...Â
UNBECOMING is where we incinerate the "good girl" blueprint and build a capacity for power you’ve been hesitant to fully claim. I’m talking about building an IDENTITY so solid and a body so fortified that your presence is FELT through Zoom, where the frequency of your certainty converts clients.
We collapse the timeline between where you are and what you want, recalibrating your frequency until your vision board has no choice but to collapse into your reality.Â
Apply here!THIS OFFER IS FOR YOU IF YOU WANT TO...
- Scale beyond $10K months in a way that feels good, spacious, and sustainable.
- Stop forcing yourself to show up online when your body says no, without feeling paralyzed by a the heaviness that won't let you rest but won't let you work either.
- Measure your success by how you actually FEEL in your body as you grow, not just by the numbers.
- Move through launches like a predator stalking its prey: measured, calm, and terrifyingly focused, while everyone else in the industry is panicking.
- Attract the most aligned and consistent stream of ''I wanna work with you forever'' clients who are hooked on your energy, not your effort.
- Be done with the cycle of hustle and urgency, the constant pressure and overworking, burning out, and starting over again under the false pretense of ambition and productivity.
- Lead from a place so primal and aligned that the work actually resources you and lights your soul on fire.Â
- Be held in a space where all parts of you are welcome. Where you stop bypassing the struggle, fear, and frustration that silently weigh on your body and slow your growth. A space where vulnerability and strength CO-EXIST. Where you don't have to choose between being powerful and being HUMAN.
I'm Ela.
I grew up in an environment shaped by narcissism and codependency. From an early age, I learned how to read the room, stay small, and silence my needs to keep the peace. I became highly attuned to others: what they needed, what they expected. For a long time, I didn't even realize how much of myself I had buried just to survive.
I had to repair the most sacred relationship I abandoned to survive: the one with myself.
The same "staying small" that kept me safe as a child was exactly what was holding me back in business. That "good girl" energy created a nervous system that shrunk on sales calls and choked on its own power. It hesitated to raise prices for fear of a "no." It tolerated energy vampires. It said "yes" when I wanted to say "no" and breached my own boundaries.
I’m not just a coach. I’m the rebel who dug herself out. Out of the rubble of a personality designed to keep everyone else comfortable. I dug myself out of the conditioning that made me dim my light and hold back my bigness so I wouldn't make anyone else feel small.
Clinical EFT Tapping was the shovel.
What stood out immediately was...
that it didn't ask me to bypass what I was feeling. There was no pressure to "think positive" or override my emotions. It provided the space to meet myself exactly where I was and listen to what my body and emotions were trying to tell me.
No one told me what to do or how I should or shouldn't feel. That is the space where power grows, a space where power is never taken away from you in the first place.
With every session, I softened. I unraveled. I reclaimed a little more of my voice, my space, and my truth.
It changed my life, but it also fundamentally shifted how I showed up in my business:
• I set boundaries and stopped tolerating toxic behaviors.
• I charged my prices without flinching, over-delivering, or apologizing.
• I stopped attracting "energy vampires" and started drawing in clients who respected my expertise.
• I stopped seeking validation and "buying" love by discounting my value and my time.
• I moved from a business built on accommodation to a business built on alignment.
• My calendar became more spacious while I earned more.
We are clearing the noise. We are deprogramming the "stay small" and "good girl" software. We are building a nervous system that can actually hold the weight of six-figure leadership without collapsing into a puddle of resentment and burnout. We are building a body that doesn’t pull the brakes when you make your vision board come true.
UNBECOMING exists because I know the brutal cost of growing while ignoring your body. I know what it’s like to scale a business while your soul is dying, I know what happens when you finally stop bypassing your wholeness, and I know exactly what you’re capable of once you do.
Apply here!Introducing... UNBECOMING
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A 6-month journey to embody your most powerful leadership, so that you can sustainably scale and grow your business to 6 figures without burning yourself down to get there.
• 1 community call per week, so you integrate, process, and move forward with real support behind you.
• ONBOARDING 1:1 coaching call.
• Self-paced curriculum.
• Six months access to the community and support.
• Guest speakers on strategy, messaging, offer development, and more.
• Q&A thread.
• Session replays and notes.
• Practical tools you can use for life and practice in between sessions.
Tools and guidance that honor your nervous system and reconnect you to your body, so you stay grounded under pressure and scale at a pace that doesn't cost you your sanity.
Somatic and identity work to release the emotional blocks slowing down your growth, so the leader who shows up boldly, creates impact, and builds income does so as the fullest version of herself.
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Module 1:
The Foundation
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We start with the full picture, where you are, where you want to go, and everything in between. By the end of this module you will know exactly how to identify and navigate every block showing up in your business, and process emotions in real time, transforming resistance into momentum.
Module 2:
Building The Body That Can Hold the Strategy
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In this module we use your business as a portal, going directly to where the resistance lives and expanding your capacity from the inside out, building a body that doesn't collapse under pressure. One that stays grounded, calm, and focused as you grow.
Module 3:
Unbecoming
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This is where we go deepest. We heal the subconscious patterns that make success, visibility, and wealth feel unconsciously unsafe. We break generational cycles of scarcity and struggle. We expand your capacity to hold abundance without bracing for it to disappear. We amplify your voice, own your uniqueness, and anchor everything through embodiment rituals built specifically for you, so the transformation doesn't stay in the session. It becomes who you are.
This is an invitation for you to join my free Telegram community,Â
where I’m giving you the tangible "How-To" on Clinical EFT Tapping, so that you melt the resistance that shows up while executing strategy, and your business scales to 6 figures without abandoning yourself to get there.